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About Us

Welcome to Coach De Bruyns – your trusted source for transformative eBooks and personalized life coaching services dedicated to reclaiming masculinity, building resilient families, and embracing traditional values in a modern world. Founded by Coach De Bruyns, a South African author, blogger, and life coach with over 14 years of experience in business and education, our platform is designed to empower men and women to navigate relationships, personal growth, and family dynamics with authenticity and purpose.

Who We Are

At the heart of Coach De Bruyns is its namesake: a passionate advocate for traditional lifestyles, informed by a lifetime of diverse experiences. An avid athlete trained in combat sports like boxing, Muay Thai, karate, and judo since childhood, Coach draws from his personal journey – including living as a polygynist with multiple wives – to offer practical, no-nonsense insights. His work challenges prevailing societal norms, exploring gender roles, religion, Quranic governance, and the pillars of masculinity. Whether through thought-provoking eBooks or one-on-one coaching, Coach De Bruyns aims to guide individuals toward stronger, more fulfilling lives by prioritizing self-improvement and family-centered values.

Our philosophy is simple: True strength comes from within. We believe in comparing your progress only to your past self, fostering resilient family structures where the family – not the individual – is the cornerstone of society. Rooted in Islamic principles, we promote patriarchal marriage, predefined gender roles (with men as protectors and providers), and the benefits of polygyny as a pathway to harmony, protection, and prosperity. By addressing issues like sexual incompatibility, infidelity, and societal pressures, we help you build legacies that endure.

Our Mission

In a world dominated by fleeting trends and broken narratives, our mission is to equip you with the tools to reclaim your authenticity. We challenge modern monogamy's pitfalls – often stemming from unstable upbringings – and advocate for intentional polygyny as a resilient alternative. Through our eBooks and coaching, we provide actionable strategies to:

  • Solve relationship challenges and foster commitment.
  • Encourage early marriage and reduce pre-marital risks.
  • Protect women and marriages while channeling natural desires constructively.
  • Build wealth and stability through strong, multi-generational families.

We emphasize submission to higher principles, obedience in family hierarchies, and personal sacrifice for greater goals. Whether you're a man seeking to lead with confidence or a woman exploring traditional dynamics, our resources help you become the best version of yourself.

What We Offer

eBooks: Practical Wisdom at Your Fingertips

Our collection of eBooks distills Coach De Bruyns' expertise into concise, impactful guides available for purchase on Amazon and our site. Each book is crafted from real-life experiences, offering step-by-step advice without fluff. Highlights include:

  • Polygyny Maybe? A Practical Guide to Polygyny: An 88-page manual on navigating multiple marriages, from proposing to your first wife to managing jealousy, schedules, and family harmony.
  • How to Get and Keep a Wife: A Marriage Guide For Men: Essential strategies for men to attract, commit to, and sustain meaningful partnerships.
  • Live Your Life As a Man: Reclaim Your Masculinity: A roadmap to rediscovering masculine strength and purpose in everyday life.
  • IT IS WHAT IT IS: Coach De Bruyn’s Philosophy in a Nutshell: A quick dive into core beliefs on life, relationships, and resilience.
  • Polygyny Maybe Not?: A Guide to Monogamy: Balanced insights for those opting for traditional monogamous paths.
  • The Terrorist Next Door Series (Hate At First Sight and Prison Sentence): Engaging narratives exploring societal themes.

Plus, download our free eBook, A Guide on How to Get and Keep a Man, to unlock tips on inspiring loyalty and commitment in relationships. Our eBooks are more than reads – they're blueprints for transformation.

Life Coaching Services: Personalized Guidance for Real Results

Beyond books, we offer tailored life coaching to turn insights into action. Coach De Bruyns has helped hundreds of clients overcome directionlessness, achieve goals, and build high-performance families. Our programs include:

  • Polygyny Coaching: Expert advice on implementing and sustaining polygynous lifestyles.

  • Relationship Coaching: Tools to resolve conflicts, enhance intimacy, and strengthen bonds.

  • Weight Loss Coaching: Holistic approaches combining physical training with mindset shifts.

  • Guidance Coaching: Broad support for personal development, from career to spiritual growth.

Start with our popular 40-minute introductory session for just $50 (regularly $60), where you'll uncover personalized steps to elevate your life. Sessions focus on sacrifice, goal-setting, and leaving behind what no longer serves you – all delivered with Coach's direct, empathetic style.In addition to coaching, explore our free resources: insightful blog articles on relationships, religion, business, and health; community groups and forums for discussion; and email subscriptions for the latest updates.

Why Choose Us?

With a track record of positive reviews – including praise for our honest, discouraging approach when polygyny isn't a fit – Coach De Bruyns stands out for its authenticity. We're not about quick fixes; we're about sustainable change rooted in traditional wisdom and Quranic principles. Our content has empowered over 400 men to create purposeful, patriarchal households, proving that resilience and fulfillment are within reach.Join us in redefining family and masculinity. Whether through an eBook download or a coaching call, take the first step toward a life of intention and strength. Contact us today to learn more or browse our offerings – your journey to a thriving legacy starts here.