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How to Choose and Keep a Wife
A Marriage Guide for Men

Coach De Bruyns

How to Choose and Keep a Wife is a much needed and in demand marriage guide for men in a time when marriages are just not working. This book doesn’t aim to fix the problems of women, or the problems with society. Rather, this book gives men a step by step guide on how to properly vet a woman for marriage. It also gives men clear guidance on how to manage being married and staying married. While some might see this book as idealistic, there is something in it for everyone. It tackles the issues of marriage both from an idealistic and pragmatic approach. On the one hand, the author sets forth an ideal but also acknowledges the real likelihood that the ideal will not be accomplished and gives practical advice on how to manoeuvre in less idealistic circumstances. Even though the target audience for this book is single men or men who are married and are having a hard time, it would prove useful for women who are look at being good wives to read.

“Men who believe in egalitarianism make the mistake to treat women as if they are men. They often end up separated and walk away saying they can’t understand what went wrong. “I gave her everything.” Women say they want men who take what they say seriously, but are unable to respect men who look to them for leadership or who treat them as equal. Women want men who they can look up to and whom they deem are their superiors. A wife is a partner who supports your vision and goals. She takes you as her leader and is willing to submit to your authority as the head of your home and family.”

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A marriage guide for men

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Polygyny, a form of polygamy where a man has multiple wives, can have various benefits depending on cultural, social, and economic contexts. Some of these benefits include:

  1. Increased Family Size: Polygyny can lead to larger family units, which can be advantageous for labor and support in agricultural or communal settings.
  2. Economic Advantages: With multiple wives, families may pool resources and labor, potentially increasing economic productivity and stability.
  3. Inheritance and Legacy: Polygyny can strengthen familial ties and ensure the continuation of lineage, particularly in societies that emphasize inheritance through male lines.
  4. Support in Child-rearing: Multiple wives can provide assistance in child-rearing, sharing the responsibilities and fostering stronger communal bonds among families.
  5. Social Status: In some cultures, having multiple wives can be seen as a sign of wealth and status, enhancing the social standing of the husband.
  6. Variety of Relationships: Different wives may bring diverse perspectives and strengths to a family, fostering a rich social environment.
  7. Balancing Gender Ratios: In societies with significant gender imbalances, polygyny may provide women with support and security, especially if there are more women than men.

It’s essential to note that while there can be perceived benefits, polygyny can also lead to various challenges, including emotional stress among wives, competition for resources, and complex family dynamics. The effects of polygyny can vary greatly across different cultures and individual circumstances.

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