About Author​

Coach De Bruyns is a prolific South African author and blogger focused on men’s issues and the overall well-being of society within the post-modern context. He advocates for a world in which traditional families can once again operate as the most viable basic unit of society. He emphasizes the importance of men playing their masculine roles unashamedly to build a better world in which everyone: men, women, children and the elderly are safe, free and happy.

Coach De Bruyns

Order is the brother of chaos. Order must dominate, chaos must follow behind.

Coach De Bruyns

Prolific Author

Coach De Bruyns has authored eight books in the last four years. His books range from topics on men’s health and self-improvement to monogamous and polygynous marriage advice. He has also written two fiction books that is both entertaining and informative.

Coach is in a unique position having developed a deep understanding of diverse cultures from across the globe. He is ethnically diverse, being the descendent of both white and black ancestors, and having been raised with both Islam and Christianity. He also travelled extensively and lived in both the East and West. He is multilingual, a speaker of English, Afrikaans and Arabic with exposure to Spanish and German too.

He also dedicated a lot of his life to studying both the Bible and the Qur’an, and has trained in the fields of Education and I.T. However, his greatest passion is to help people through his writings, podcasts, and through one on one coaching sessions. He hopes that through these activities he can be a positive influence in the world.

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The Essence of Masculinity

In contemporary society, the essence of masculinity is often debated and misunderstood. Retaining masculine qualities is crucial for men as it aligns with intrinsic traits that have been cultivated over centuries. These qualities include strength, leadership, responsibility, and emotional resilience. By embracing these traits, men not only honor their heritage but also foster personal growth and societal respect.

The Role of Masculine Traits in Personal Development

Masculine qualities contribute significantly to a man’s personal development. They encourage accountability and assertiveness, which are imperative for achieving professional and personal goals. Moreover, these traits enable men to face challenges head-on, cultivating a mindset that values perseverance over complacency. In essence, by maintaining these qualities, men can navigate life’s obstacles with confidence and determination.

Impact on Relationships and Society

Men who embrace their masculine qualities also positively impact their relationships and the broader community. They become dependable partners, mentors, and leaders who inspire others. This ripple effect fosters a supportive environment where values such as loyalty and respect prevail. As a result, when men embody these qualities, they contribute to healthier relationships and stronger communities, highlighting the importance of these traits in modern life.

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